It’s rigged — everything, in your favor.
So there is nothing to worry about.
Is there some position you want,
some office, some acclaim, some award, some con, some lover,
maybe two, maybe three, maybe four — all at once,
maybe a relationship
I know there is a gold mine in you, when you find it
the wonderment of the earth’s gifts
you will lay aside
as naturally as does
a child a
So there you have it. The truth. You were always meant to succeed, not to fail. That’s just your ego trying to trick you into thinking you aren’t enough.
There are many days when you perceive things as good or bad…and you forget that our attitudes might have just interpreted something one way, when in reality, it could have been interpreted a completely different way.
I have a difficult job dear readers. If you have been following me for any length of time, you know that I lift others up on my Facebook page, but there are some people I can’t reach. So I have a challenge for those people who are reading this and are truly ready to be over their negative patterns of thinking. Just read this and let it sink in.
We have long seen evidence that our thinking styles go back to how we were raised. You might even start to speak like your mother or father and hold some beliefs that just aren’t relevant to you anymore. So how do we get rid of those negative beliefs and truly embrace “the gold mine in you” as Rumi said?
I can’t teach it all in one blog post…that is true. However, I can help you start to interrupt these negative thoughts through a process I use with my clients called Interrogative Self-Talk. My private clients get my full attention as soon as they fill out the application to have a call with me,<< but one of the things I can see right off the start is how they are speaking, and writing, about themselves. As we look at some of the things they write that might be blocking their path to success at home, work, or even relationships (breakups can leave lasting negative thoughts), I help them come up with other ways to think and see the thoughts. Sometimes a thought might be, “I will never lose weight.” and then we actually dissect that thought on our call. Well, is this true? What have you tried to lose weight? Where is this coming from? And more.
In order to fully embrace the fact that life is rigged in your favor, you have to really start to change the entire way you are living. That is the basis for my new course, and the way I am approaching healing. I believe that struggle is part of growth, and I know that have had my fair share of struggle, as no doubt, so have you. But are you merely going through the motions time and time again? Have you gotten to that point where you are over 35 and you are doubting that true love exists? Or perhaps you are over 45 and you struggle with feelings of self-esteem after a bad relationship or loss of a job that was your whole life?
I just want to ask you if you have ever asked yourself this question…have I tried everything there is to try? I know there’s a gold mine in you. You just need a guide. Accepting where you are right now is part of the journey and then deciding you are done with that part, and you are ready to move forward is the next step. What if you lived life like it really and truly IS rigged in your favor? What things would you want to do right now, today, without a care in the world?
Would you wear the shorts that “others” deem not appropriate for your age? Would you buy the concert tickets even if that’s way past your bedtime? How would you life if life was rigged in your favor? Would you ask someone out who catches your eye? Would you quit your job because it’s sucking the life out of you and would you finally apply for that dream job you’ve always wanted?
Would you open the store up, or move to a new place? Would you travel the world? These are the questions that you can think about…journal about…write about. And speak life into.
I challenge you to live life as if it is rigged in your favor today, and if you need a little help, and you are ready to move forward, >> I am here for you today. <<
The day I started living life as if it was rigged in my favor, was the day I changed my life.